In today's Miss Manners column, advice columnist Judith Martin responds to a couple upset that many wedding attendees arrived ...

We truly and absolutely do not want gifts, but is it wrong to want people to take five minutes to write a card?

Perhaps, however, she can ease your mind by offering some reasonable explanations: Some people do not wish to make a donation ...

They explicitly said “no gifts” for their wedding but are “befuddled” by how many guests showed up cardless. Dear Miss ...