This is the frustration, the overwhelm, and sometimes the tears that can come when the timer ends and the task isn’t finished. That moment can feel like failure for a child who’s trying their best. But here’s what’s actually happening: her brain is learning to regulate emotions, process endings, and recover from frustration. We don’t rush her through it. We validate her feelings “It’s okay to be upset. You tried really hard.” Then we give her more time. Mikko is home homeschooled, which means we

Smoked peppercorns, funky Tatoes, and steak Peppercorn blend: 1 tbsp black peppercorn 1 tbsp white peppercorn 1 tbsp dried green peppercorn 2 tsp pink peppercorn 2 tsp coriander seed Toast all peppercorns and coriander seeds then crush so you have a chunky blend. I then sifted the mixture to remove the very tiny bits. After that, I smoked them in 30 minute intervals relighting each time. Funky tatoes: 1 lb Yukon gold or other waxy tatoe 4oz washed rind cheese such as epoisses or taleggio 4 tbsp